The wedding was beautiful. The bride, dazzling in white. The
groom, radiant as he stood waiting for his bride. As vows were spoken and rings
were exchanged, I had no doubt the bride and groom were in love. In love with
each other and in love with the Lord. The Lord was praised for bringing the
couple together and He was an integral part of the wedding ceremony.
Two Become One
A wedding signifies the merging of two lives. Marriage was
instituted by God himself, and is a beautiful picture of Christ’s relationship
with the church. “For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and
shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. This is a great
mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church,” (Ephesians 5:31-32;
KJV).
So this translates to ‘happily ever after,’ right? Only when the Lord,
hard work, and determination are part of the equation.
Every marriage faces challenges. Sometimes I selfishly want
things to be done my way – forgetting my better half. “Oneness in marriage does
not mean losing your personality in the personality of the other. Instead, it
means caring for your spouse as you care for yourself, learning to anticipate
the other person’s needs, helping the other person become all he or she can
be,” (Life Application Study Bible, p. 2078).
Wow! Now that’s a tall order. But
when God is at the heart of the relationship, we put ourselves in a position
where He can bless us, and our marriage works.
A Love Story Worth Reading
Remember Ruth and Boaz’s love story? Ruth was a young woman
from Moab who was profoundly influenced by her mother-in-law, Naomi. When
Ruth’s husband died and Naomi determined to return to Bethlehem-Judah, Ruth
willingly left her country, and embraced a new life, “…for whither thou goest,
I will go; and where thou lodgest, I will lodge: thy people shall be my people,
and thy God my God,” (Ruth 1:16b).
Once back in Judah, Ruth was determined to
help Naomi. Gleaning in a nearby field gave her an opportunity to harvest food
for the two of them.
Enter the knight in shining armor. Okay, he didn’t really
wear armor, but check out his list of qualities and decide if he was a keeper:
above reproach, self-controlled, wise, respectable, hospitable, gentle, a godly
man, and a good manager of his own household – to name just a few. I’m pretty
sure he’s the kind of guy every mother dreams of for her daughter!
God's Blessings
In order to marry Ruth, Boaz had to fulfill some legal
obligations. He was willing to do everything that was necessary. These two
demonstrated a strong love for the Lord as individuals and continued to build
on their foundation as a couple. And God blessed! “So Boaz took Ruth, and she
was his wife: and when he went in unto her, the Lord gave her conception, and
she bare a son,” (Ruth 4:13).
That son turned out to be none other than Obed,
the grandfather of David! Ruth and Boaz were blessed for their obedience to the
Lord by being included in the lineage of Christ.
When we center our marriage on the Lord, we can be sure we
will be blessed as well. In fact, any relationship with Christ at its core is headed
in the right direction! “The Lord thy God in the midst of thee is mighty; he
will save, he will rejoice over thee with joy; he will rest in his love, he
will joy over thee with singing,” (Zephaniah 3:17).
Evaluate your relationships. Is Christ at the center of each
of them? If not, what step will you take today to make Him the emphasis?
Prayer: Heavenly Father, Thank You for the relationships
You’ve blessed me with. Help me to build strong relationships where You are
honored and glorified. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
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*A re-post from 9/2011