Showing posts with label lessons. Show all posts
Showing posts with label lessons. Show all posts

Thursday, January 3, 2013

Something the Cat Taught Me



It’s true – lessons can be learned from life’s irritations IF I’m willing to see the bigger picture.

I had the privilege of taking care of my neighbor’s pets while they were visiting family. The three dogs, three cats and a guinea pig, all under one roof, promised to keep me busy. 

I didn’t realize the animals would play a key role in teaching me an important lesson.


Maybe it was the rain that made the animals unpredictable, but the morning routine was anything but routine. From the time I arrived, the pets would not cooperate. One of the dogs refused to go outside, retreating farther into the house, regardless of my coaxing. Two of the cats had entertained themselves with ornaments retrieved from a hutch I was certain they were unable to reach. What was going on?

I continued to entice the uncooperative dog outside. Maybe a treat would convince her to step over the threshold? I was pretty sure she needed to empty her bladder after eight hours in the house. She refused to budge. That’s when it happened: with the door wide open, one of the cats took advantage of the opportunity. Quicker than I could shut the door, the cat darted out into the yard.

Fortunately the rain acted in my favor – the cat didn’t run far before realizing the warm, dry house was far better than the cold, wet out-of-doors. He let me pick him up, and even endured my scolding as I deposited him back in the house. I carefully shut the door behind me, scanning the kitchen to make sure all pets were accounted for.

I was stunned – there was a lesson here. 


Too often, the wide-open door is a picture of my heart. I fail to guard my heart and as a result, all kinds of things get in that shouldn’t be there.  King Solomon, writing under the inspiration of the Holy Ghost, put it this way: “Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life,” (Proverbs 4:23; KJV).

I may be doing a decent job of protecting my heart from the things I think of as “big” sins (killing, stealing, adultery, etc.), but while I’m focused on those things, other sins are able to slip by: pride, lying, complaining, a bad attitude. 

In God’s economy, sin is sin—there is no classification: “big” sin or “small” sin.


Agreeing with God’s definition of sin and putting on the armor He provides (Ephesians 6:11-17), are the right steps for me to take in order to guard my heart. The devil is depicted as a roaring lion intent on destroying me (1 Peter 5:8).

But God is greater than my enemy. When I humble myself and rely on God’s strength to overcome the devil, share my doubts and struggles with the Lord, and stay alert to the enemy’s schemes, my heart will stay protected.

God adds a beautiful promise: “But the God of all grace, who hath called us unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered a while, make you perfect, stablish, strengthen, settle you,” (1 Peter 5:10).

Are you guarding the door to your heart? What step will you take today to protect yourself?

Prayer: Heavenly Father, thank You for using life’s irritations to teach me important lessons. Forgive me for thinking I can guard my heart on my own. Help me humble myself and look to You for the protection my heart needs. Thank You for the promise that when I face trials with You, I am made more complete. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Thursday, April 26, 2012

What Do We Have In Common?



It’s always neat to find out that you have things in common with others. Recently, I was tagged by fellow-blogger, Janette Dolores, to answer a few fun questions. I enjoyed reading her answers, and am excited to add mine to the mix.

If you haven’t checked out Janette’s site, take a few minutes to do so! She writes about family and spirituality. You’ll always leave her blog with something to think about.

Sit back with your favorite coffee or tea of choice, and see how much we have in common! Here are my answers:

1        Book or movie and why?
Definitely a book! My daughter constantly makes fun of me because I read at least two or three books at the same time. I’m currently reading Love at Last Sight by Kerry & Chris Shook, and The Storehouse Principle by Al Jandl. Although both of these books are non-fiction, I enjoy fiction as well. My first choice in this genre would probably be historical fiction. Why books over movies? I enjoy being the one to visualize the characters and locations, rather than having all the blanks filled in by a producer.

2        Real book or e-book?
This is a tough one. I read both. I’ve found that I enjoy real books for the fact that I’m reminded of the title and author of the book, every time I pick it up. But the convenience of my Kindle Fire can’t be beat. When I’m going out of town, I can take multiple ‘books’ without having to worry about filling my luggage with everything I’m currently reading. On the downside, I often forget the title of the book I’m reading and the name of the author…

3         Funniest thing you’ve done in the last 5 years.
Had to consult my husband on this one! He immediately brought up the goofy dances I invent on different occasions. The most memorable one? Probably my ping-pong dance. Yes, you read that correctly. My husband, daughter, and I were staying at a lodge in North Georgia. We decided to go down to the game room and play ping pong. I’m not exactly sure why I felt compelled to dance while returning the ball, but there you have it! And fortunately for the other guests, we were the only ones in the room!

4        How would your best friend describe you?
Good question! I actually texted her to find out! Here’s her response, “A very godly woman.” Wow – how humbling. And something I definitely want to live up to!

5        Do you put yourself into the books you read/write or the movies you watch?
Hmmmmmm. No, I don’t think I do. There are definitely character traits that I can identify with – but I don’t put myself in the character’s shoes.   

6        Favorite kind of car and why?
I really enjoy our Land Rover. It’s an LR2 – small enough for me to manage, yet big enough for hauling things. It’s great in all kinds of weather and has settings for off-road excursions as well!

7       Would your choice of party be a catered meal or barbecue out back?
If I were hosting the party? Definitely barbecue out back! My husband smokes a mean pork shoulder! Add some cole slaw, baked beans,  s’more fixin’s, and good friends, and I’m a happy camper – or should I say a happy hostess! 

           What’s your favorite season and why?
Can I have two favorites? Fall and spring. In the fall, I love the changing colors of the leaves. The crispness in the air. And the promise of a fire in the fireplace. Spring is such a wonderful reminder of new life. Everything begins to bloom and I enjoy seeing the light green foliage on the trees in our woods.   

9        What specific lesson have you learned – spiritual, educational, occupational?
The Lord has really been challenging me to live out the life lessons He gives me. Most recently, I’ve been encouraged to trust the Lord as I move outside of my comfort zone. Relying on the Lord to open doors for me instead of trying to force them open, has helped me to develop patience! “Wait on the Lord: be of  good courage, and he shall strengthen thing heart: wait, I say, on the Lord,” (Psalm 27:14 KJV).

          Besides writing, what’s your favorite thing to do when you get some extra time?
I love reading and spending time with family (including our pets – Precious & Joe (retrievers); and our cat, Courtney).

1       What’s one place you can be found at least one time every week?
Church, and the grocery store!

Now that you know more about me, I'd love to know more about you! Simply leave your answer to any one of the questions in the comment section! In addition, I’m tagging seven other bloggers to join in the fun and answer all 11 questions (if you’re unable to participate, I totally understand!):